There is no turning back now - “If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever.”"Do you think my hair is soft and shiny?" Jessica asked Josh one moonlit evening.
Josh answered, "Yep."
"And are my eyes bright and beautiful?" she continued.
"Yep," he replied.
After a few minutes Jessica forged ahead, "Josh, do you think my skin is smooth and clear?"
"Yep."
At this, Jessica smiled brightly and declared, "Oh, Josh, you say the sweetest things!"
Lucky for Josh, he got a little help!
No relationship can be built on flattery, but sincere compliments smooth over many rough edges. A thoughtful compliment is a way of saying, "I care enough to notice." Even relationships that are not romantic in nature will benefit from well-placed compliments.
Granted, some people feel suspicious, embarrassed, or defensive when complimented. They sometimes suspect that fine words might be part of a manipulative design. And quite often, people respond to compliments with mixed emotions rather than plain gratitude, primarily because they find the sincerity behind them suspect.
But most often, sincere encouragement can bolster self-confidence and cement friendships. In love relationships, thoughtful compliments can help keep the fires of romance burning vigorously.
One marriage counselor says, 'Compliment your spouse at least once every day." He cautions against flattery by adding, "It should be sincere. Then point out something new you appreciate about him or her every week. Make sure it is something you have never mentioned before. You'll be surprised at what it does for your marriage."
Sincere compliments cost nothing and can accomplish so much. In ANY relationship, they are the applause that refreshes.
From Lifesupport.
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